tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3462787118668544142.post4951136299875880775..comments2023-10-07T16:35:50.848+01:00Comments on wakeupandsmellthecoffee: The Sunday Phone Callwakeupandsmellthecoffeehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04602735058278146250noreply@blogger.comBlogger17125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3462787118668544142.post-32894723366625307192008-01-25T05:45:00.000+00:002008-01-25T05:45:00.000+00:00Oh Wake Up, I sincerely hope that all turns out we...Oh Wake Up, I sincerely hope that all turns out well for your mother. I can only imagine the fear that has gripped you and will likely torment you in the days to come. My thoughts and prayers are with you.Keeping It Realhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08896136321278702128noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3462787118668544142.post-80005397185207226322008-01-24T16:20:00.000+00:002008-01-24T16:20:00.000+00:00SM: Thank you for that reassurance. I'm hoping for...SM: Thank you for that reassurance. I'm hoping for the best.<BR/><BR/>expatmum: Of course you didn't tell me not to worry. I'm thinking I might try to go when or if she has to have surgery.<BR/><BR/>QV: As if worrying about our children isn't enough, then there's our parents. I will try to follow my heart, thank you.wakeupandsmellthecoffeehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04602735058278146250noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3462787118668544142.post-21298949377907548922008-01-24T11:53:00.000+00:002008-01-24T11:53:00.000+00:00Oh Wakeup. I feel for you, I really do. It is unch...Oh Wakeup. I feel for you, I really do. It is uncharted territory for you and for me - my parents are still in their 60s but the nagging thought that they wont be here for ever is already knocking on the door of my consciousness. Follow your heart - Easter may be the best thing.<BR/><BR/>Thinking of you xQueen Vixenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06362210631858652847noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3462787118668544142.post-54338399111213895322008-01-24T02:41:00.000+00:002008-01-24T02:41:00.000+00:00Oh no - I didn't mean to tell you not to worry! I ...Oh no - I didn't mean to tell you not to worry! I know you'll worry -we all would.<BR/>I forgot to say that my mother-in-law (in the States) had one of the "watch and wait" situations which turned into a mastectomy, but she has been clean now for 7 years and because they cut everything out, they are saying that she is as much at risk as anyone else. It really isn't a death sentence, but for your peace of mind you should go see her earlier.Expat mumhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17798190669591053390noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3462787118668544142.post-6838509227215836032008-01-23T21:46:00.000+00:002008-01-23T21:46:00.000+00:00Wakeup, exactly the same thing happened with my Mu...Wakeup, exactly the same thing happened with my Mum and she got over it fine and lived many more years.<BR/><BR/>I'd go and see her early just because you want to, and for the joy of it, if you can. Being so far away can't make anything like this any easier, so go if you can.<BR/><BR/>xSwearing Motherhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07277450057243928790noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3462787118668544142.post-11388086836801653262008-01-23T20:57:00.000+00:002008-01-23T20:57:00.000+00:00VI:Thanks. Being so far away is the most difficult...VI:Thanks. Being so far away is the most difficult part, I think.wakeupandsmellthecoffeehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04602735058278146250noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3462787118668544142.post-34017055408362512082008-01-23T18:35:00.000+00:002008-01-23T18:35:00.000+00:00I hope everything turns out ok. I would absolutel...I hope everything turns out ok. I would absolutely hate it if it was my mum, being so far away from her.Vihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03765245225983839101noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3462787118668544142.post-23365059319801586492008-01-23T16:19:00.000+00:002008-01-23T16:19:00.000+00:00j.: thank you very much for your kind words and of...j.: thank you very much for your kind words and offer of advice. We shall see what the outcome is.<BR/><BR/>kelly: thank you for thinking of me.wakeupandsmellthecoffeehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04602735058278146250noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3462787118668544142.post-60596078190177131202008-01-23T15:17:00.000+00:002008-01-23T15:17:00.000+00:00How very worrying for you... and no doubt frustrat...How very worrying for you... and no doubt frustrating that you can't do anything. One step at a time. Thinking of you, and your mum. xxKelly Inneshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17145699000960809495noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3462787118668544142.post-24841283533428481302008-01-23T14:22:00.000+00:002008-01-23T14:22:00.000+00:00Oh, goodness. From what you have said about your m...Oh, goodness. <BR/><BR/>From what you have said about your mother, she has a lot of fight in her, and that will serve her well - regardless of what the nodule is or isn't.<BR/><BR/>If it is cancer - and hopefully it's not - please let me know if I can help. My husband is an oncologist and although breast cancer is not his specialty, if we can help you understand what is happening...<BR/><BR/>Hang in there.Jhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11118404372102239756noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3462787118668544142.post-64834743606927428312008-01-23T09:48:00.000+00:002008-01-23T09:48:00.000+00:00laurie: Logically, I tell myself that it's not a d...laurie: Logically, I tell myself that it's not a death sentence. I, too, know many women who have had breast cancer and are still around today living productive lives. I think it's just the worry that she's so far away, and none of us is near enough to be there. It could just be a lump. But she did take Premarin for many years, and she is overweight and has a high-fat diet.<BR/><BR/>expatmum: Unfortunately, telling me not to worry is like telling me not to breathe. But thank you for your good thoughts.<BR/><BR/>chrisb: That is worrying about the UK. The mother of a good friend of mine had breast cancer in her late 70s. She had the surgery and tamoxifen and was told they got it all. They didn't. It came back in her bones. I don't what my point is about this tale except that it could happen to anyone at any time, and 70 is still a young age for many people.<BR/><BR/>beckie: Thank you.<BR/><BR/>kaycie: There are many stories like your mother-in-law's, and I will try to keep them in mind. Thank you for your kind thoughts.<BR/><BR/>flowerpot: Breast cancer isn't the death sentence it used to be, thank God. But doesn't it seem far more prevalent? I'll see what happens in the next few weeks.wakeupandsmellthecoffeehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04602735058278146250noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3462787118668544142.post-21664363439002280092008-01-23T09:12:00.000+00:002008-01-23T09:12:00.000+00:00I do feel for you, but as Laurie says, this is not...I do feel for you, but as Laurie says, this is not a death sentence - it's so easily treatable particularly if it's caught so early. And I agree - I;d go and see her pronto.Flowerpothttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14102679179201725732noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3462787118668544142.post-83664469346226896472008-01-23T03:29:00.000+00:002008-01-23T03:29:00.000+00:00We went through breast cancer and two mastectomies...We went through breast cancer and two mastectomies, one radical, with my mother-in-law. Her lump was hidden deep in the breast and was fairly large when they found it. Both breasts were taken because of her history (breast cancer in the 70s). That was ten years ago. She'll be 71 in April and has done wonderfully.<BR/><BR/>Go see your mother as soon as you can, within reason. It will be good for both of you.<BR/><BR/>I'll be thinking of you, sweetie, and hoping everything is ok.Kimhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05655321325607087357noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3462787118668544142.post-48911673742950900912008-01-22T23:48:00.000+00:002008-01-22T23:48:00.000+00:00I came by looking for Fun Monday and saw this post...I came by looking for Fun Monday and saw this post. I totally understand the lump in your throat. <BR/><BR/>I will put you on my bloglines so I can follow along. <BR/><BR/>Wishing you the best.Beckiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08428690536368982418noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3462787118668544142.post-90689940061399391802008-01-22T23:45:00.000+00:002008-01-22T23:45:00.000+00:00I do hope things turn out well for your mother. I ...I do hope things turn out well for your mother. I agree with what Laurie says about the earlier trip. It would be good for both of you. <BR/>Do you know here in the UK they stop doing the 3yrly routine mammograms when you get to 70 and this really worries me.ChrisBhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06958330170295676200noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3462787118668544142.post-36387924444243477272008-01-22T23:24:00.000+00:002008-01-22T23:24:00.000+00:00Oh dear. How worrying. The good thing about doctor...Oh dear. How worrying. The good thing about doctors in the States is they tell you everything - sometimes too much but at least you don't feel you're left in the dark. I hope the outcome is not as bad as you fear.Expat mumhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17798190669591053390noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3462787118668544142.post-58001976389697862352008-01-22T23:15:00.000+00:002008-01-22T23:15:00.000+00:00oh, my dear, please don't worry. finding a nodule...oh, my dear, please don't worry. finding a nodule is <I>not</I> a death sentence--even for an older woman.<BR/><BR/>i've been down this breast cancer road with many, many women i am close to. yes, my sister died--but she died because she ignored the lump and waited until the cancer had moved into her bones before she saw a doctor.<BR/><BR/>even then, she lived seven more years.<BR/><BR/>i pray that your mother will be fine, but i also believe that she will. she'll probably have to undergo some sort of surgery. if it hasn't spread, they might not even subject her to chemo, because of her age.<BR/><BR/>of course you worry. it's your mother, and you're far away. i'd make the trip earlier rather than later--not because she won't be around for the later trip, but because it will ease your mind and make you both happy.<BR/><BR/>good luck to you. try not to worry. i hope you hear good news soon.lauriehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18055442432266567561noreply@blogger.com