tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3462787118668544142.post2643257555782569332..comments2023-10-07T16:35:50.848+01:00Comments on wakeupandsmellthecoffee: Back in Englandwakeupandsmellthecoffeehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04602735058278146250noreply@blogger.comBlogger9125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3462787118668544142.post-87743410485703810222008-05-06T11:12:00.000+01:002008-05-06T11:12:00.000+01:00Look What I Found...Preview These Busty Beauties ....Look What I Found...<A HREF="http://www.oobabes.com" REL="nofollow">Preview These Busty Beauties ... CLICK HERE</A>Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3462787118668544142.post-1478984055391979162008-04-27T17:39:00.000+01:002008-04-27T17:39:00.000+01:00you have had a bad time wakeup but you are being v...you have had a bad time wakeup but you are being very strong and doing the right thing. take care and have long walks with Jake if you can. And wine!Flowerpothttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14102679179201725732noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3462787118668544142.post-5169090936772537822008-04-25T21:45:00.000+01:002008-04-25T21:45:00.000+01:00Not a great time for you. I felt queezy just read...Not a great time for you. I felt queezy just reading about your flight - I don't like flying but I still do it, not very often though!<BR/><BR/>I'm glad your stepfather is being sorted out. You didn't need that worry when you're so far away and your mum certainly doesn't need a worry like that.<BR/><BR/>Take care, CJ xxAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3462787118668544142.post-23908715839201329462008-04-25T12:19:00.000+01:002008-04-25T12:19:00.000+01:00Welcome home. Glad you arrived safely and that you...Welcome home. Glad you arrived safely and that you were able to bring some degree of order and safety to your mother's and step-father's lives. Now comes the hard part, the waiting and watching from afar, knowing the limits of what you're able to do.<BR/><BR/>You're in my thoughts.-Annhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08359625931588140579noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3462787118668544142.post-4637469068117711392008-04-25T04:50:00.000+01:002008-04-25T04:50:00.000+01:00I'm glad that you were able to accomplish some of ...I'm glad that you were able to accomplish some of what you wanted while there. I know it must have been hard to leave and I feel for you.<BR/><BR/>My own mother is supposed to retire and come live with us in the separate 2 bedroom apartment we have above the garage. She is putting off retirement because of the way the economy looks, and I can understand her hesitation. But recently she told me that she worries about what if she gets scatterbrained or in such poor health that I cannot take care of her and the only reply I could think of was: "What if you don't?" I can't worry about the "what ifs" when it never comes. I will take each day as it comes and deal with whatever happens at that moment.<BR/><BR/>What I mean to say is, take each day as it comes and try not to worry so much for what may or may not happen. Easier said than done... (((hugs)))jennyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08772053505930801670noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3462787118668544142.post-12807849901564678592008-04-24T20:01:00.000+01:002008-04-24T20:01:00.000+01:00Welcome back mate. shame it couldn't be more of a...Welcome back mate. shame it couldn't be more of a happier visit. How very hard you for. xxVihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03765245225983839101noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3462787118668544142.post-8975924256481701092008-04-24T17:48:00.000+01:002008-04-24T17:48:00.000+01:00i haven't commented in a while but i've been readi...i haven't commented in a while but i've been reading these posts with great interest.<BR/><BR/>i know a little of what you're going through. i know how frightening and exasperating all this is, but keep in mind that we don't really learn HOW to grow old, and we do NOT want to admit we need help or can't help the ones we love.<BR/><BR/>your mom is in that situation now, with your stepfather, you know. you are doing the right thing--you are doing exactly the right thing. but it's not easy and part of the reason is that she doesn't want to admit how much help they need.<BR/><BR/>my folks were exactly the same.<BR/><BR/>your flight home sounds awful. i think you deserve another bottle of wine.<BR/><BR/>hang in there.lauriehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18055442432266567561noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3462787118668544142.post-88640182687632775362008-04-24T17:33:00.000+01:002008-04-24T17:33:00.000+01:00It must have been hard to leave your mother. But y...It must have been hard to leave your mother. But you can give yourself a pat on the back because you have done so much for them in the short time you were there. At least in hospital your stepfather will be well supervised and if he is going into a rehab centre they will surely assess what he can/can't do. That flight must have been so scary~no wonder you felt sick! Will be saying a prayer for you all.ChrisBhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06958330170295676200noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3462787118668544142.post-6939202881228481952008-04-24T16:58:00.000+01:002008-04-24T16:58:00.000+01:00OH hon, what a time you've had of it. And isn't go...OH hon, what a time you've had of it. And isn't going to stop.<BR/>Sending you hugs<BR/>pxxFire Byrdhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05477692359400671374noreply@blogger.com